Ớt sa tế xả và bánh tráng trộn 5 sao tại nhà! hị hị!!

 I by chance read a short love story in the NY Times, I do like it, and I wanted to share it with someone. I have thought and N was the one. How so? I mean I do have close friends, not many, but a few. However, they have a specific role, I think, I can talk to them on some topics. A part of it is because of the language we use. for example, T is my very very close friend here, but she doesn't use English, she does not watch or read many things that I do, such as Friends, Dan Brown, Harry Potter or Agatha Christies and so on. 

Are we assigned roles and tasks in some way? Naturally without effort? 

I guess we are.